The What Gifts 2021

If you are perusing this guide chances are you’re a thoughtful, caring gift giver. But who takes care of you? This is why we put our holiday faves together with self-gifting in mind. One for them, one for you. One for them, two for you. Wishing you and yours a cozy, healthy holiday season.

ANNA New York

Founded by our friend Anna Rabinowicz, ANNA New York is a luxury home and lifestyle brand which elevates nature through design.

Promo code THEWHAT15 for 15% off all designs. Valid until midnight PST December 3, 2021.

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The Iconic H Blanket $53

It may not be Hermes but then neither is the price. Teen girls are obsessed with this blanket. It’s cozy chic and adds a little panache as a throw for a bed or couch.

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Anytime You Drink Vitamins $59

Giving or going to holiday parties? Don’t forget to take your vitamins. We love to give this as a hostess gift too. These chewable tablets make the morning after more bearable.

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The AstroTwins’ 2022 Horoscope

We’ve been following the renowned Astro Twins - sisters Ophira and Tali Edut - for years and love their annual guides on what to expect in the year ahead. Their predictions are always spot on and we’re hoping for some positive vibes in 2022.

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Ayla Sea Soak $59

100% Natural Beauty. Shop organic & non-toxic skin care products curated by experts at Ayla. Our favorite gift to give is Ayla’s Sea Soak. It’s a spa experience in a box!

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Assouline Travel Series from $95

We are collecting a few of these at a time and It’s a wonderful gift for the traveler in your life, even when they’re grounded.

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Beauty Bubbles $49

Drink beautifully. Eschew the booze for some relaxing beauty bubbles—adaptogenic sparkling CBD water that will give you the calm without the calories, not to mention the added benefit of skin and hair-enhancing plant and herbal extracts.

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Rocks With Soul

Our friend Kerri Lehmann is our go-to fine jewelry guru with a heart of gold. Her chic curated collection is always on-trend and priced well. Plus, a portion of all of her sales are used for philanthropic purposes.

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Sootheez 3D Extremely Comfy Slippers $69

Give the gift of comfort this season. Sootheez has shock-absorption qualities protecting the foot and ankle from the impact that comes from the foot striking the ground.

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Parker Thatch

Swagger-wear bags from our long-time friend, Irene Chen. Each personalized bag is designed by Irene and finished in the US. All graphics are hand-drawn by her husband Matthew.

$20 off your first purchase of $100 or more with promo code parkerthatch$20

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My Pet Canva Custom Fleece Blanket from $85

What’s even better than cuddling with your best friend? Being WRAPPED in your best friend WHILE cuddling with your best friend. Double the cuddle. Warm fuzzies are practically guaranteed with this super soft, long lasting plush blanket.

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Accordian Sculptural Lamp $69

This LED illuminated work of art is an instant conversation piece.

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Hudson Boudoir Candle $55

Moroccan, Jasmine, Gardenia and Indian Tuberose, with a caramel Amber Praline. We love this all year long, but especially in Fall and Winter. They smell as sexy as they sound.

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We Are HAH

HAH is pioneering the idea that real is the new sexy with its sustainable collection of swimwear, lingerie, sleepwear & apparel. HAH clothing is designed for the HAH woman with a purpose, with a conscience, with a soul. 20% Off promo code: THEWHAT20.

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Soft Ice Machine $400

Do you have an ice-cruncher in the house? If you have a soft ice-lover in your house, this is THE gift to give although they will drive you even more crazy with all the crunching.

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Rebecca Allen Shoes inclusive nude flats $150

After she couldn’t find the perfect nude shoe for her own skin as a black woman working in finance, Rebecca Allen launched her initial collection of five nude shades in a modern, timeless style.

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Minimalist NYC

Minimalist is a curated collection of women’s ready-to-wear, defined by a commitment to circularity and purity of design. Founder Tamara Davydova’s jumpsuit is the most versatile piece in our closet and looks phenomenal on every body, from petite to statuesque.

Promo code 10% off with TWA10

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Sparkling Pomegranate CBD Box from $45

With the perfect blend of Sparkling Wine flavoring, Pomegranate, and a splash of Grand Marnier flavoring, the most elegant gumdrop (yet) by Molly J. is the perfect way to ring in the New Year. No alcohol included.

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PantoneTravel Mug $46

We were early fans of the Pantone coffee cups and now we can take them on the road with these cool travel mugs.

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Italy Wine Puzzle $49

More than a puzzle, you will learn about wine of course, but also about Italian geography as you start playing your way into the world of wine.

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S’mores Kit $139

These s’mores kits are the perfect way to enjoy s’mores at home or on the road. This is a fun family activity, date night, or gift to show s’more love. This variety of best-selling s’mores kits includes enough delicious goodness to make 3 O.G., 3 Samoa, and 3 Birthday s’mores. You can toast these bad boys over an open fire or broil them in the oven.

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8 Greens Gummies $19

Love that our favorite greens supplement is now offered in a gummy. Easy stocking stuffer for anyone in the family.

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Mexican Train Dominos $20

We discovered this game just prior to a month long RV trip and it’s become our family go-to for parties, cozy nights and road trips. Educational and exciting for the whole family. We’ve gifted this more times that we can count and it’s always a winner.

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Liv+Grace

LIV + GRACE - non-toxic, customizable skincare collection delivering transformative results without harming you or the planet. The Superseed Oil is soothing and hydrating during these winter months.

Promo code TWA20 for 20% off plus special gift with purchase: mulberry silk black mask and a luxe sample of Vital Complete Hydrating Essence ($65 value).

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Disco Bulb $23

We’ve spent the last 18 months throwing impromptu at-home disco parties, just to switch things up and give a much needed mood boost to ourselves and families. This simple, easy-to-use bulb does the trick. Just add tunes.

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Aviator Nation Sunburst Apres Puffer $875

This puffer is next level. Flashy, fun super light and warm. Yes it’s a splurge but think about how Cali-cool you’ll look hitting the slopes. Our skiing days may be over but you’ll find us sporting this all winter long.

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Solo Stove from $225

The worlds favorite smokeless firepit. Solo Stove is built for the backyard and beyond. Bonfire’s unique features make it an unrivaled player in all your outdoor spaces. Grab a grate and you’ll be able to make popcorn or pull out your cast iron skillet for meals.

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House Of Wise

Take control of your sex, stress, and sleep with House Of Wise’s organic, full spectrum CBD oils. Makes for a thoughtful gift for any stressed out, sleep deprived woman on your list.

Founder Amanda Goetz will share with you the best secret Santa gift yet and give you 20% off your order with promo codeTWA20

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WTF Notebooks

Started by two creatives in 2020, WTF Notebooks are the perfectly inappropriate, relatable, funny gift for someone who needs a giggle or just a simple reminder that we’re all just human. They’re funny because they’re true.

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Boys Back-to-school Kit $65

Developed by a board-certified pediatric dermatologist, Stryke Club makes superpower formulas with science-backed ingredients for clear, confident skin for teen and tween boys. Our boys love the wipes and the Stryke Stick so much that they’ve started sharing with their friends. We’re now on the quarterly subscription plan and it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

Use code WHAT20 for 20% off.

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Book of Dares: 100 Ways for Boys to Be Kind, Bold & Brave

$14

Packed with 100 inspiring, creative, fun challenges for boys, this project from violence-prevention organization A Call to Men, answers parents' cries for building healthy manhood, respect, and emotional awareness in their sons.

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Fjallraven, Kanken Classic Backpack $75

We have it on official word from our teen and college friends, that Fjallraven Kanken backpacks are It. Makes us wish we had a semester abroad in our future.

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Therabody RecoveryAir System $499

The athletes in our families have finally found relief at home with these compression air leggings. They boost circulation, decrease swelling and stiffness and relieve muscle fatigue.

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SUPPORT THE PARTNERS THAT SUPPORT THE WHAT

Cast, has evolved the oft-intimidating fine jewelry buying experience with art, design, sustainability, and inclusivity. Cast champions female designers by partnering with new artists and designers to make and launch each Cast collection. Every piece is numbered and exclusively found only on Cast's website. We're scheming to buy The Getaway Ring, which we call the modern-day mood ring since it's FOUR rings in one. The inner section features glamorous, ethically sourced Canadian pavé diamonds on one side and mint chrysoprase on the other. The outer section features white agate or with a quick flip black onyx. The ring is set in reclaimed 18K gold. We've never seen anything like it!

Give yourself a boost! BOOST mints contains THCV, known to promote energy and clarity, and when paired with a very low dose of THC, a vital, happy feeling. We can attest that a single mint gives a fully functioning feeling of pleasure and a motivating high. There is also some research showing that THCV can suppress appetite and is excellent for pain. Every body is different, so experiment conservatively and see what works. Only available for delivery in California for now. Morning coffee move over, there’s a new Boost in town!

Save 20% on an online delivery here or by applying the code WHAT20 at checkout.

You don’t need a partner to keep warm this holiday season. Dame Products is a woman-founded company focused on pleasure. Developed and tested by real people, Dame’s innovative products are made with body-safe, doctor-approved materials and smart design principles, which have earned glowing praise from The New York Times, The Today Show, and more. Whether you’re looking to upgrade your self-care routine or shake things up with your playmate, they’ve got something for every nightstand. (We’re effusive fans of the Arc!)

Use code THEWHAT for 15% off your first order with Dame.

We took an online quiz at RealSleep, answered questions about our physical build, mental health, age and health goals, and received a customized supplement—pairing its core formula with other natural compounds to fit our specific needs (think Ashwagandha to lower stress, Reishi Mushroom to strengthen immune health, and more). We’ve finally broken the torturous cycle of sleepless nights, getting our deep Zzzs, and feeling better during the day with our personalized add-ons. Plus, their ecochic packaging looks nice on the nightstand. 

Most importantly it works! The company tested over 10,200 nights of sleep in clinical trials & saw a huge difference in sleep quality: 80% of RealSleep’s users (including yours truly) have seen significant improvement immediately in sleep quality and next-day alertness. What better gift to give yourself or a loved one during the chaos of the Holidays.

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Handmade clothing created with nature’s finest cashmere and silk.

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